Loading ...Getting in the Spirit
Remembrance Day for our family signifies the beginning of a season of sharing ourselves with others and giving thanks for the gifts we have been given in our lives. The children and I will attend ceremonies in Riverside Park (I am assuming that is where they will be!) to remember those young men and women who fought so proudly against those who tried to jeopardize what those before them tried to achieve.
While our government may not be a perfect system it does allow us freedoms and fortunes beyond what many other industrialized nations provide. A new generation of Canadian soldiers is going to fight in a war which is probably one of the most highly controversial in recent history. It is also most likely a fight no one is going to win; the strategies of war are far beyond what I am willing to comprehend and the goal seems illusive to even those fighting it. Which why it is all the more important that we give our love and support to those who have chosen to be part of something bigger than themselves.
The picture quickly gets too big when we start taking steps back and often we feel paralyzed by the overwhelming situation. Christmas has lost meaning for many of us and has only become another source of stress about money and time. For me Christmas is not about buying and spending money but is about letting the people close to me know just how much I care about them and am grateful to have them in my life. A kind note sent to a friend far away, a cup of tea shared with one I haven’t connected with in a while or a family outing shared together just for the fun of it. Take the time spent shopping and hunting in the dreaded malls and big box giants and give that time and give yourself instead that is where you will find the true joy and spirit of Christmas.
For those of us who love to give a gift (I know I do) consider something smaller and simpler that is sure to be enjoyed; homemade gifts are some of the most special because they enable us to tailor something exactly to that person. I received a jar of antipasto from my step-mother a few years ago, a treat I throughly love eating, and to this day every time I have antipasto or see it I think of her warmth and kindness. She’s given me lots of things over the years but that thoughtful little gift of herself made the biggest impact and is one I will always remember. We are all pressed for time in this crazy messed up world we live in so maybe making it a joint effort is something to consider, maybe the gift making itself is a moment or tradition that you can share with your family. My mom and I can jam and/or chutney together then gift out the majority of our efforts. The time we spend together is more precious to me than any gift I will give or receive.
This year simplify your Christmas list down to those who really matter and focus on what you can give of yourself. Happy Winter Solstice. Merry Christmas. Happy Hanukkah and everything in between may the season be full of warmth and love for you all.
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